Saturday, 20 July 2013

‘I may die if I marry another man’


A 38-year-old meat seller, Mr. Dauda Yusuf, had earlier pleaded with the Agege Customary Court to dissolve his union with his wife, Mrs. Saidat Yusuf.

His reason for the divorce petition was given as constant fighting, but both parties have always been absent in court until Tuesday.

The couple has been living together for five years and blessed with a child.

Yusuf told the court that he was fed up with the marriage and didn’t want anything to do with his wife again because of her constant fighting.

But the 28-year-old wife said she was not ready to divorce her husband because she had a covenant with him that any attempt to divorce him would portend a danger to her life.

“My husband and I had an agreement with the Ifa oracle, which he took me to. During the covenant, a string of beads was tied round my waste as a covenant that will prevent me from having any relationship with any other man.

“If the covenant is not broken or deactivated, it will be dangerous for me to marry any other man after divorcing my present husband,” she said.

The husband had first denied entering into any covenant with the wife and even swore with the Holy Quaran.
But after a lot of interrogation by the judges, he confessed that they entered into the covenant but he bowed out of the covenant because Saidat was not the woman Ifa married for him.

“Saidat is not the woman the Ifa oracle chose for me; besides, she has already removed the beads,” he said.

When the wife was asked whether she actually removed the beads or not, she said she removed it but people told her that the covenant must still be deactivated by her husband to prevent any future danger.
She said she untied the beads in anger after one of her fights with her husband.

The court president, Mr. Emmanuel Sokunle, pleaded with the man to take his wife to where the covenant was made so that it could be broken d the woman would be free.

They both agreed to deactivate the covenant on July 26 and afterwards, Sokunle adjourned the case till August 1, 2013.

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